Today was a particularly interesting turn of events especially after the magnificent experience that was International Women´s day for me. A women who had been in the office all the way back in September with her friend for moral support. (For anyone who has been reading since september this was the friend of a women who´s court case I went to. She was trying to get her son back from her mother after about a year of searching for a job. The mother, however, had no desire to give the child back and was filing for custody. For those of you who don´t know the end, the mother did eventually get back her son!) She is currently in a wheelchair and at the time I didn´t really think anything of it until today.
We greeted each other outside the door of the office today and she told me that she was here to continue with her case of recuperación (literally translating to recovery), trying to get her children back from her mother-in-law who refused. When my boss was ready she came in and explained her situation.
Around two years ago she was married with two kids living on the south side of Quito. One day her and her husband had been fighting and he stabbed her in the back with the intent to kill her, and left her in the house for dead. Once someone finally found her she was taken to the hospital where she ended up staying for over a year. Today she is restricted to using her wheelchair and is paralyzed from the waist down. Telling us about the struggle of her first year staying in the hospital she explained that everyday all she wanted to do was kill herself and the only thing from day-to-day that kept her living was the though of her children.
While she was making her recovery in the hospital, the husband had run away with the children to his mother´s house, where to this day they still are. You might be wondering how this man is out of jail after paralyzing his wife? Well, this leads me on a little bit of a digression. I had recently been reading a pamphlet that was given to me by the American Embassy when I went to one of the “town meetings” they held for Americans living in Ecuador. Anyway, I found an article discussing the criminal justice system in Ecuador. Sad to know but less than 1% of all criminals are actually convicted and sent to prison in the entire country. Unbelievable. Discussing this with my boss today he even was saying that the penal system in Ecuador is completely in shambles.
So anyway, this is how this criminal is still on the streets and this woman will never walk again. I went from a wonderful day full of appreciation of women, to hearing this one women´s story to once again remind me that there are still people in the world who are hateful and only seeking to destroy. Sorry to leave people with this story on a Friday! I just felt that it was an interesting and important parallel to my post yesterday.
On a brighter note, I wish everyone a happy weekend!